work. He's a great guy though. He's one of those guys that you can't be sad around. He just makes everyone happy.
Wednesday we got trained on working with members, which I'm starting to realize how important that really is. Members are like those people you meet, and then you see them everywhere. This week we taught a couple lessons with members, and now I remember their names, and see them everywhere. It also gives them a chance to know us, so that they will help us better. PJ Rogers came last week, and talked a lot on the culture of Korea. I can't explain much, but relationship is everything. So much goes into that, and without it, members won't do much with us. It was a good training. That night we met with Kim and You. They are doing good. We met them yesterday too. We have one more time of English/gospel, so if they don't want to, we may only meet them one more time. I really hope we can keep meeting. I feel like 60 minutes, with a member there, will help solve a lot of their issues, and concerns. They still make excuses for not reading, or not coming to church. That's the most frustrating part. Kim says "back in the past, a pastor only wanted money", "Sunday is my day of rest", "we want religious freedom for our kids so they don't fight if they join other religions"... Most of this just translates to "I'm just lazy"... really annoying. I wish he would just be straight with us.
Thursday we taught with a member couple, and they were great. This guy, actually was a pastor, knew where they lived, they knew similar people, and hit it right off. The husband got a little sidetracked, but it was all a good lesson. The guy was like "oh, when you explain the Book of Mormon that way, I want to read it now", when the members explained what it was. I wonder how many people drop us, because they feel like they don't understand us, and we don't understand them. That night we met a Mongolian family that came all the way to here, just to be sealed in the temple. They knew some Korean which helped, but man, we are blessed in Utah. People travel COUNTRIES, not just 5 minutes, to get the blessings in the temple. That really hit me.
Friday during planning, I kinda brought up how I feel Elder Ashby is really focused, but a little too much at times. Since then, we have gotten along much better. He still likes to do a lot on his own, (I'm kinda the same way) but we are getting better.
Saturday we taught Lincoln and Ellie, and met with a less active. Both were good meetings, although Lincoln and Ellie, man they are right there.... they are so ready for baptism, they are right there, but because of Lincoln's job, they are scared, and Lincoln can't even get baptized, since he is with the Chinese government. I'm really hoping that we can get Ellie baptized soon, but I fear that because of Lincoln not being baptized, and his job, she will continue to hold out.
Well, love you all, there are the highlights,